Friday, August 06, 2010

Advice

I have been very stressed out over the past few days. Not only have various things pop up that have been unwanted and unexpected, but stuff just has not been going the way I want them to.

When I was at work last night, I was talking to one of the guys and he gave me great advice. I mean it was something I already knew in a way, but hearing it from someone else seemed to really help me. He told me that no matter how much I want something to change or go a different way, it won't always happen. There are some things that we as people can change, but there are also somethings in life that are out of our control. There are also a lot more serious problems out in the world that need attention more then something as little and petty as what might be bothering me.

My only irritating bit about the whole situation that occurred last night was that when you tell someone you most likely can do something for them, don't let them know your answer at the last possible minute. Not only does said person do things for you all the time, but you never seem to be able to return the favor. If you didn't want to do it don't tell me you can and then wait until the last moment, the night before, to say "no I can't some "stuff" came up". Especially when I know from other people that that "stuff" is another stupid concert.

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